So TRUE!

It's so TRUE....at least I'm thinking so today. The more you do, the less you do well. There is just not enough brain power in any day to get it all done, check off all the lists and make sure you don't miss something in the middle. So many little things lately that I forget to do-literally five minutes later. Little stupid mistakes that drive me nuts and I'm sure I could have avoided had I taken a few more minutes. But that's assuming that I have a few more minutes. HA! It's a wild ride this year and I'm guessing things will stay at this kind of crazy pace for a while with the kids and their upcoming items. Busy days they are, I often feel like I'm in a pressure cooker, but I know the outcome is all worth it!

Disappointed

I am so disappointed with our Governor. Harvey Milk Day, REALLY? I would love to know when the last time any of these bill writing folks tried to explain the birds and the bees to a pre-teen? As if things are not complicated enough? I don't need them hearing about Harvey Milk before I've even really covered the whole sex talk myself! We have slowly tried to build through the past five years or so discussion with our children (9 and 10.5) about our bodies, changes that come, relationships, etc. Parents have been told by experts from a variety of professions that it's best to start young with these discussions and offer them age appropriate information that builds slowly. How can a parent follow this "normal" progression if we are chop blocked as early as age five in our classrooms?

I realize that my children need to understand the gay and lesbian lifestyle and influences in our culture. It is the time they are growing up in and I will continue to teach my children to respect people of all race, religion and creed. Regardless of anyone's choices, whether I agree with them or not, they are people on their own journey for the pursuit of happiness. It is their right to do so. But I also believe that as parents we should be the one deciding when and how these conversations are broached. This is a delicate time and a vital issue in a pre-teens life. It's already confusing, scary and intimidating. Throwing too many things at them, especially before they may be ready for the process emotionally and intellectually especially is just ridiculous. Again, I ask...when was the last time one of these lawmakers sat down with a 9-10 year old to explain any of sex education with a child they are vested in! It is NOT easy!!!!!

Heads up. This state is a mess and again we are tempted to flee. Sure it's not just this issue, but again, I don't see much good, other than the weather and family, keeping us here. We won't burry our heads, but we will seek best. Isn't that why so many love their Hondas and Toyotas? Any vehicle will get you there....but.......

FOOTBALL!!

Our Thursdays and Saturday evenings are now filled with football. Kent is an assistant coach and Kyle is loving his positions as QB, WR and DB. So far he's had his share of successful plays and is really enjoying his team and serving as a leader. Of course his height is an advantage and has served him well with a few interceptions. Kyle is really enjoying his football experience. Yesterday we were out for a drive and I drove past my old High School football field. Kyle says, "I wish I were older, I so want to play on a field like that". It was cute.

In flag football it's all about pulling flags, great throws and speed. Kyle has a few pals on his team that can run downfield without much contest. After a touch down, they always go for two. There is no kicking. Two 20 minute halves and we're always wishing for a longer game!


Kyle's first touchdown of the season! Score-VIKINGS!

Playing some defense! Gotta get that flag! That turf isn't easy on the knees, but he wants it BAD.

Coupons-meeting people where they are at!

Part of my goal as PTC president this year is meeting people where they are at. So this year instead of $8 wrapping paper and guacamole bowls, we're selling Entertainment Books for our Fall fundraiser. Coupons -who doesn't like a coupon. Our local book has $20 in coupons at Safeway, so that's for sure something our community will use. The movie coupons we will use for sure as well. Buy 1 get 1.

One friend mentioned the idea of a coupon exchange. You can trade in the coupons you won't use....say golf.....for the ones you would use.....museums or a favorite restaurant. Cool idea, but I need another thing to plan like a hole in the head!

Fundraisers are not my favorite thing, but they are the real deal when you raise 50k for a school. Crossing my fingers these books sell and looking forward to my own coupons! Let me know if you are interested. The books are $40 in most areas and can even ordered for other areas and shipped there!

He'll be a Vike!

Got our phone call last night. Kyle was drafted....his team....VIKINGS! We couldn't be more pleased. Even Karly was excited and Kent is pulling out his Viking hats for all the coaches to use! Practice starts soon and games in a few weeks-looking forward to it here!

Now if only we could put in our order for Kyle to be a Cardinal for little league season....that would be perfect!

Back to the Bells

The Kern kids went back to school this week- one with elation and one with reservation. Karly was more than excited to return as the big girl on campus-this will be her last year at Blue Oaks. Kyle is still trying to figure out how he can avoid the next nine years of schooling. Staying home to watch the little league world series was his desire. Nonetheless, the kids were out the door early, wearing smiles and backpacks the first day of school. Both Karly and Kyle like their teachers and I think once routine sets in maybe even Kyle will be won over to loving a little learning.

As for Gilligan, he's depressed I think. When I come back from dropping the kids, it's like he doesn't know what to do. His pals are gone and the house is oh so quiet. That quiet is now a gift though for this busy Mama who is knee deep in PTC craziness and volleyball season. The last few weeks have been really hectic and I look forward to next week as things should begin to slow down just a little.

Still can't believe the kids are so big and so great! Thankful to be a Mama!

Remembering 10 years!

Ten years ago we stood before the judge and promised to love our Karly Corn! Brainiac child. Lover of books. Theater queen. Creative wonder. Daddy's princess. Mama's pal. Brobber's sissy. Our sweets and baby girl! Can't imagine life without her. WHAT A GIFT!!!!